Why Do Women Use Shaming Tactics on Men?

[tailfins]

While I disagree with about 30% of the ideas of MGTOW, but they present interesting ideas to investigate. I find this particularly interesting because it touches on a part of the human experience that I don't have, namely shaming and embarrassment. One of the concepts that they present is toxic women and their male accomplices whom are referred to as "man-ginas". This shaming and embarrassment business is to me similar to verbally describing the concept of color to a blind man.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kfmd8Ekw1kM

[Gunny]

Why do men use shaming tactics on women?

It's an emotional ploy used by both. It's abuse by either. The scars of emotional abuse last longer than physical abuse. And no ... before you say it ... I condone NEITHER.

But don't try making out like "us poor ol' guys are getting mind-f*cked by the gals" in some one-way manner.

[tailfins]

Why do men use shaming tactics on women?

It's an emotional ploy used by both. It's abuse by either. The scars of emotional abuse last longer than physical abuse. And no ... before you say it ... I condone NEITHER.

But don't try making out like "us poor ol' guys are getting mind-f*cked by the gals" in some one-way manner.

I just feel blessed that my brain doesn't process such stimuli. If there were a pill to make that part of my brain function, I would NOT take it. I bet if there were such a pill, that it would be blue, as in "red pill, blue pill"
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Red_Pill

[Gunny]

I just feel blessed that my brain doesn't process such stimuli. If there were a pill to make that part of my brain function, I would NOT take it. I bet if there were such a pill, that it would be blue, as in "red pill, blue pill"
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Red_Pill

You ever wonder what women think of US?

Why doesn't this bonehead stop and ask for directions comes to mind immediately.

"Your arm's half-severed. Don't think that BandAid's going to fix it. Why don't you go to the doctor?" Ain't going to no doctor. I got sh*t do.

"You can't lift that by yourself. Get the neighbor to help." The Hell I can't. *crash* And she's videoing your dumb a$$ on her phone and LHAO.

"You don't hold babies upside down by their ankles!" Why not?

Instructions come with that'" Bah....

We do shit that boggles their minds.

[gabosaurus]

I just feel blessed that my brain doesn't process such stimuli. If there were a pill to make that part of my brain function, I would NOT take it. I bet if there were such a pill, that it would be blue, as in "red pill, blue pill"


Some men are shamed because they are shameful men.
I have no doubt that your brain doesn't process some stimuli. Among those have to be positivity, self esteem, emotions and plain old common sense.

And now for some humor...

Not long after the Resurrection, Jesus shows up in Texas looking for some firepower. Because, even if you are the Son of God, you can't be too careful in modern society.
While in Wal-Mart buying some ammo, Jesus is approached by a frantic Anglo guy accompanied by his VERY unhappy Brazilian wife.
"Jesus, please, you HAVE to help me!"
"What can I do for you, my son?"
"I know that, in the Bible, you did healings. Like when you appeared in Bethany. Can you do the same for me?"
Jesus looks at the man, looks at his wife, judges his affliction, then speaks.
"Sorry, my son, the Lazarus bit doesn't work on individual parts."

[Gunny]

Some men are shamed because they are shameful men.
I have no doubt that your brain doesn't process some stimuli. Among those have to be positivity, self esteem, emotions and plain old common sense.

And now for some humor...

Not long after the Resurrection, Jesus shows up in Texas looking for some firepower. Because, even if you are the Son of God, you can't be too careful in modern society.
While in Wal-Mart buying some ammo, Jesus is approached by a frantic Anglo guy accompanied by his VERY unhappy Brazilian wife.
"Jesus, please, you HAVE to help me!"
"What can I do for you, my son?"
"I know that, in the Bible, you did healings. Like when you appeared in Bethany. Can you do the same for me?"
Jesus looks at the man, looks at his wife, judges his affliction, then speaks.
"Sorry, my son, the Lazarus bit doesn't work on individual parts."

I think he's afraid of women and ashamed of it. He has to compensate with this "superiority" act. :)

To this day I am shy around women I don't know and if they come on to me, completely tongue-tied. :laugh: I just roll with it. My grandmother ruled the roost in her house, and my mother rules it in hers. Didn't seem to affect my manhood much. Emotional games? We've all played them and not just man v woman. All a woman has to say to another is "Dear, you look like you gained a few lbs .... :dev:"

Guys are easier. All a guy has to do to punk another guy is outperform him physically. Some guy's been looking to increase his lift for a year and finally gets it. Then outlift him.

But it's ALL mind games -- emotional manipulation.

[tailfins]

I think he's afraid of women and ashamed of it. He has to compensate with this "superiority" act. :)

To this day I am shy around women I don't know and if they come on to me, completely tongue-tied. :laugh: I just roll with it. My grandmother ruled the roost in her house, and my mother rules it in hers. Didn't seem to affect my manhood much. Emotional games? We've all played them and not just man v woman. All a woman has to say to another is "Dear, you look like you gained a few lbs .... :dev:"

Guys are easier. All a guy has to do to punk another guy is outperform him physically. Some guy's been looking to increase his lift for a year and finally gets it. Then outlift him.

But it's ALL mind games -- emotional manipulation.

Now it's you that's overthinking. It's as simple as women committing verifiable adverse action for no apparent reason. The only thing that I can imagine is that they must be pretty stupid to openly do actionable/prosecutable behavior when I can't even comprehend their stupid mind games. Are men too puddy whipped to sue or criminally prosecute a woman when she deserves it?

[jimnyc]

Over the years, I believe I have seen more men try to shame their wives/girlfriends, than I have the other way around. A shame that ANYONE does it to the other, but neither has a copyright on the issue.

[tailfins]

Over the years, I believe I have seen more men try to shame their wives/girlfriends, than I have the other way around. A shame that ANYONE does it to the other, but neither has a copyright on the issue.

This shame thing is quite interesting. Even though it doesn't compute in my brain, it's interesting to look up actions that cause shame and observe what people do under those circumstances.

[jimnyc]

This shame thing is quite interesting. Even though it doesn't compute in my brain, it's interesting to look up actions that cause shame and observe what people do under those circumstances.

IMO, the majority of time it's about "control". I've seen some men purposely shame or "dominate" over a woman, just to keep her in line, if that's what they think.

[Abbey Marie]

IMO, the majority of time it's about "control". I've seen some men purposely shame or "dominate" over a woman, just to keep her in line, if that's what they think.

Yup, had a fiancé like that. Then one day I realized it, and that was that for the relationship. It was very freeing. Once I saw that he was doing it out of insecurity, it all made sense. I would advise anyone not to get involved with this type of person.

[jimnyc]

Yup, had a fiancé like that. Then one day I realized it, and that was that for the relationship. It was very freeing. Once I saw that he was doing it out of insecurity, it all made sense. I would advise anyone not to get involved with this type of person.

Supportive, and help out of shaming. If I'm out at a bar, or party (when I was younger), and the girl I was with would be picked on, even in a friendly way - my goal is to support her and comfort here, to turn it around and help instead. The only point of shaming, IMO, is when you obviously want to hurt someone. And who in the world would want to hurt their wife or girlfriend? Why would a wife or girlfriend want to hurt their boyfriend/husband?

But yup, I would advise anyone to get out from underneath something like that before it even has a remote chance of getting worse, whether a man or woman on the receiving end.

[tailfins]

Supportive, and help out of shaming. If I'm out at a bar, or party (when I was younger), and the girl I was with would be picked on, even in a friendly way - my goal is to support her and comfort here, to turn it around and help instead. The only point of shaming, IMO, is when you obviously want to hurt someone. And who in the world would want to hurt their wife or girlfriend? Why would a wife or girlfriend want to hurt their boyfriend/husband?

But yup, I would advise anyone to get out from underneath something like that before it even has a remote chance of getting worse, whether a man or woman on the receiving end.

You do realize that some people don't do these things on purpose. Be it in a relationship or just those I see in public, I'm thankful for the rare women who are willing to raise the gutter bumpers in the game of social bowling. Of course @gabosourus is the exact opposite of that. Well Gabby, how do you take your pettiness to the next level when someone is stone blind to your shaming attempts? Do you slap them?

For some strange reason, Asian and Latin women are far more willing to raise those gutter bumpers.

[gabosaurus]

tailfins, you are thankful for the rare women who are not allowed to raise the gutter bumpers in the game of social bowling. Or else they are not allowed to. Purchased items always come with fewer strings.

[Gunny]

Now it's you that's overthinking. It's as simple as women committing verifiable adverse action for no apparent reason. The only thing that I can imagine is that they must be pretty stupid to openly do actionable/prosecutable behavior when I can't even comprehend their stupid mind games. Are men too puddy whipped to sue or criminally prosecute a woman when she deserves it?

Rather than over-thinking, I chose to educate myself the best I can. TO YOU there is "no apparent reason". TO THEM, you're an unfeeling asshole. What does make sense to you makes perfect sense to them. They damned sure don't get it when you're heading for the car with tool box and drooling. And yeah, you ARE trying to overthink it while ignoring the elephant in the room. You're trying to figure out women. How's THAT working for you so far?

You want to present a portion of a larger argument as THE argument which is misleading. So either you are trying to manipulate, or you need to seek some education. We ALL do it in one for or another whether or not it is intentional. That includes you, Pete. If you think not, you're folling no one but you.

[Gunny]

This shame thing is quite interesting. Even though it doesn't compute in my brain, it's interesting to look up actions that cause shame and observe what people do under those circumstances.
Dude, might want to pull your head out of the clouds. Y'ou're not even good at this. You're TOO easy to read. That usually comes with a false sense of superiority and arrogance. you're emotional, predictable, and arrogant. All three make you an EASY target.

[Black Diamond]

Dude, might want to pull your head out of the clouds. Y'ou're not even good at this. You're TOO easy to read. That usually comes with a false sense of superiority and arrogance. you're emotional, predictable, and arrogant. All three make you an EASY target.
You'd think he be happy. His wife has an out of control sex drive. What a problem to have.

[Gunny]

Supportive, and help out of shaming. If I'm out at a bar, or party (when I was younger), and the girl I was with would be picked on, even in a friendly way - my goal is to support her and comfort here, to turn it around and help instead. The only point of shaming, IMO, is when you obviously want to hurt someone. And who in the world would want to hurt their wife or girlfriend? Why would a wife or girlfriend want to hurt their boyfriend/husband?

But yup, I would advise anyone to get out from underneath something like that before it even has a remote chance of getting worse, whether a man or woman on the receiving end.Words hurt and they are like bullets. Once they leave the barrel, you can't take them back. And it IS about control.

But let's not lose sight of the OP. According to the insinuation in Pete's OP, only women do it.

[tailfins]

You'd think he be happy. His wife has an out of control sex drive. What a problem to have.

I agree. I know what it's like to be frustrated that way, I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy, much less my wife that would walk over hot coals and broken glass to please me. I owe her. Besides, exercising, diet and when all else fails, the diamond shaped blue pill. Things are better now. However, I hope I live to be 81. There's no way whatsoever my little Indian could fend for herself.

Is that the right word for an Amazon region indigenous woman?

[Gunny]

I agree. I know what it's like to be frustrated that way, I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy, much less my wife that would walk over hot coals and broken glass to please me. I owe her. Besides, exercising, diet and when all else fails, the diamond shaped blue pill. Things are better now. However, I hope I live to be 81. There's no way whatsoever my little Indian could fend for herself.

Is that the right word for an Amazon region indigenous woman?

Diamond shaped blue pill?

[tailfins]

Diamond shaped blue pill?

Sildenafil Citrate

[Gunny]

Sildenafil Citrate

What the Hell is THAT? Doesn't seem to be in my 15 or so vitamins, minerals and herbs collection.

[gabosaurus]

Sildenafil Citrate = Viagra. If you aren't hauling around a flat tire, you don't need it fixed. :p

[tailfins]

Sildenafil Citrate = Viagra. If you aren't hauling around a flat tire, you don't need it fixed. :p

You too will one day feel the Grim Reaper tap your shoulder. For me the first tap was failing the vision exam to renew my driver's license. Now I get the second tap on the shoulder. I hope it's a long time before Grim taps my shoulder a third time.

[Gunny]

Sildenafil Citrate = Viagra. If you aren't hauling around a flat tire, you don't need it fixed. :p

Oh....nevermind. :)

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