Tyr-Ziu Saxnot
04-20-2014, 10:12 AM
http://news.yahoo.com/ohio-couple-married-70-years-die-15-hours-145159516.html
Ohio couple married 70 years die 15 hours apart
NASHPORT, Ohio (AP) — A couple who held hands at breakfast every morning even after 70 years of marriage have died 15 hours apart.
Helen Felumlee, of Nashport, died at 92 on April 12. Her husband, 91-year-old Kenneth Felumlee, died the next morning.
The couple's eight children say the two had been inseparable since meeting as teenagers, once sharing the bottom of a bunk bed on a ferry rather than sleeping one night apart, the Zanesville Times Recorder reported (http://ohne.ws/1in7erG).
They remained deeply in love until the very end, even eating breakfast together while holding hands, said their daughter, Linda Cody.
"We knew when one went, the other was going to go," she said.
According to Cody, about 12 hours after Helen died, Kenneth looked at his children and said, "Mom's dead." He quickly began to fade and was surrounded by 24 of his closest family members and friends when he died the next morning.
"He was ready," Cody said. "He just didn't want to leave her here by herself."
Son Dick Felumlee said his parents died of old age, surrounded by family.
"At Dad's bed we were singing his favorite hymns, reading scriptures and praying with him," he told The Associated Press in an email. "It was a going away party, and we know he loved it."
The pair had known each other for several years when they eloped in Newport, Ky., across the Ohio River from Cincinnati, on Feb. 20, 1944. At two days shy of his 21st birthday, Kenneth — who went by Kenny — was too young to marry in Ohio.
"He couldn't wait," son Jim Felumlee said.
Kenneth worked as a railroad car inspector and mechanic before becoming a mail carrier for the Nashport Post Office. He was active in his Nashport-Irville United Methodist Church as a Sunday school teacher.
Helen stayed at home, not only cooking and cleaning for her own family but also for other families in need in the area. She taught Sunday school, too, but was known more for her greeting card ministry, sending cards for birthdays, sympathy and the holidays to everyone in her community, each with a personal note inside.
"She kept Hallmark in business," daughter-in-law Debbie Felumlee joked.
When Kenneth retired in 1983 and the children began to leave the house, the Felumlees began to explore their love of travel, visiting almost all 50 states by bus.
"He didn't want to fly anywhere because you couldn't see anything as you were going," Jim Felumlee said.
Although both experienced declining health in recent years, Cody said, each tried to stay strong for the other.
"That's what kept them going," she said.
That is how its supposed to be.. Presented to show the ladies that not all men are dogs.. I knew an elderly gentleman in my late teens. His wife died from a heart attack at age 69. At the time he was 73 and in excellent health. He lived next door to my older brother and I told my older brother Mr. Posey will die soon now. I bet he doesn't last 2 more months without her. My older brother asked me how I knew this and I told him how I had went over 2 weeks after her death to play dominoes with him and he explained he couldn't play and nothing meant anything anymore. And he was crying as he mention her name. I knew right then AND THERE HE WOULD DIE SOON BECAUSE I SAW TRUE LOVE, TRUE LOSS AND A DESIRE TO GO BE WITH HER IN HIS EYES.
I GAVE HIM ANOTHER 8 WEEKS MAX. HE DIED 7 WEEKS LATER.
Died quietly in his sleep. I have never forgotten that and it was in the summer of 73'... That old man was a dear friend of mine. I believe he just asked God to take him and God did.. --Tyr
Ohio couple married 70 years die 15 hours apart
NASHPORT, Ohio (AP) — A couple who held hands at breakfast every morning even after 70 years of marriage have died 15 hours apart.
Helen Felumlee, of Nashport, died at 92 on April 12. Her husband, 91-year-old Kenneth Felumlee, died the next morning.
The couple's eight children say the two had been inseparable since meeting as teenagers, once sharing the bottom of a bunk bed on a ferry rather than sleeping one night apart, the Zanesville Times Recorder reported (http://ohne.ws/1in7erG).
They remained deeply in love until the very end, even eating breakfast together while holding hands, said their daughter, Linda Cody.
"We knew when one went, the other was going to go," she said.
According to Cody, about 12 hours after Helen died, Kenneth looked at his children and said, "Mom's dead." He quickly began to fade and was surrounded by 24 of his closest family members and friends when he died the next morning.
"He was ready," Cody said. "He just didn't want to leave her here by herself."
Son Dick Felumlee said his parents died of old age, surrounded by family.
"At Dad's bed we were singing his favorite hymns, reading scriptures and praying with him," he told The Associated Press in an email. "It was a going away party, and we know he loved it."
The pair had known each other for several years when they eloped in Newport, Ky., across the Ohio River from Cincinnati, on Feb. 20, 1944. At two days shy of his 21st birthday, Kenneth — who went by Kenny — was too young to marry in Ohio.
"He couldn't wait," son Jim Felumlee said.
Kenneth worked as a railroad car inspector and mechanic before becoming a mail carrier for the Nashport Post Office. He was active in his Nashport-Irville United Methodist Church as a Sunday school teacher.
Helen stayed at home, not only cooking and cleaning for her own family but also for other families in need in the area. She taught Sunday school, too, but was known more for her greeting card ministry, sending cards for birthdays, sympathy and the holidays to everyone in her community, each with a personal note inside.
"She kept Hallmark in business," daughter-in-law Debbie Felumlee joked.
When Kenneth retired in 1983 and the children began to leave the house, the Felumlees began to explore their love of travel, visiting almost all 50 states by bus.
"He didn't want to fly anywhere because you couldn't see anything as you were going," Jim Felumlee said.
Although both experienced declining health in recent years, Cody said, each tried to stay strong for the other.
"That's what kept them going," she said.
That is how its supposed to be.. Presented to show the ladies that not all men are dogs.. I knew an elderly gentleman in my late teens. His wife died from a heart attack at age 69. At the time he was 73 and in excellent health. He lived next door to my older brother and I told my older brother Mr. Posey will die soon now. I bet he doesn't last 2 more months without her. My older brother asked me how I knew this and I told him how I had went over 2 weeks after her death to play dominoes with him and he explained he couldn't play and nothing meant anything anymore. And he was crying as he mention her name. I knew right then AND THERE HE WOULD DIE SOON BECAUSE I SAW TRUE LOVE, TRUE LOSS AND A DESIRE TO GO BE WITH HER IN HIS EYES.
I GAVE HIM ANOTHER 8 WEEKS MAX. HE DIED 7 WEEKS LATER.
Died quietly in his sleep. I have never forgotten that and it was in the summer of 73'... That old man was a dear friend of mine. I believe he just asked God to take him and God did.. --Tyr